Christmas Calamities
Barb Sulfridge Barb Sulfridge

Christmas Calamities

Two weeks ago, Barb’s daughter and son-in-law celebrated their 26th wedding anniversary. Jim was all she had hoped for as a husband to her youngest daughter, Virginia. They were a good fit for each other, and it was very apparent he loved her dearly.

She decorated with extra care that year and planned an exquisite Christmas Eve meal for their first year as a couple, but things didn’t go exactly as she had hoped.

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When To Let Go. When to Hold On.
Barb Sulfridge Barb Sulfridge

When To Let Go. When to Hold On.

A long pause hung in the air between us. Before she even sighed, I knew the answer would be the same. Heather was sentimental about many of her belongings, but this former plaything was not one of them. Even in its prime, Ann was never a beautiful doll, but now she was nearly forty years old and looked it.

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How To Bless Without Burnout
Barb Sulfridge Barb Sulfridge

How To Bless Without Burnout

Are you a compassionate person? Do you love to listen to others and encourage them in their Christian faith? Me too! But I’ve been evaluating my time and purpose, finding my identity in exactly who Christ wants me to be and what I am to do to avoid “burnout.”

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8 Ways to Express Sympathy
Barb Sulfridge Barb Sulfridge

8 Ways to Express Sympathy

Today, as I cleaned up my office, I came across a card given to me when my father died in 1900. I have kept this condolence card for 34 years. Why is it so important to me?

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How to Minister to the Critically Ill And Their Families
Barb Sulfridge Barb Sulfridge

How to Minister to the Critically Ill And Their Families

The get-well cards kept coming, day after day. I hung them from the walls of different hospital rooms in different facilities. I pinned them on bulletin boards during brief stays in a nursing home and then a rehab facility. There was hope and then one complication after another.

I realized my husband might not get well. Then, after 123 days in different medical facilities, he was healed in Heaven.

My advice today is based on my reflections after caring for my spouse during his final days. I included things that were helpful to both of us and things that weren’t. My hope is that they might spark an idea of how to be a blessing to others in physical or emotional pain.

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Pines in the Wasteland
Barb Sulfridge Barb Sulfridge

Pines in the Wasteland

Have you ever felt the adrenaline rush of hiking some of Earth’s finest forests? If not, you have likely pulled off at a scenic overlook on a mountain pass. For me, it’s all about the hike; the higher, the better. Even though I have two artificial hips, I still push my body to its limits. The view is always worth the sore muscles.

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Standing Firm in Your Faith
Barb Sulfridge Barb Sulfridge

Standing Firm in Your Faith

God’s word instructs us to draw strength from the Lord. When I reflect on these words, I am reminded that God is the trustworthy source of our strength. “Be strong” is more accurately translated as “be strengthened.”

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The Accidental Speaker
Barb Sulfridge Barb Sulfridge

The Accidental Speaker

My eyes travel from table to table, where spring flowers emit a sweet aroma. How is it that I have just been ushered to the head table? How is it that I am the featured speaker at a Christian Woman’s Club luncheon?

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Filled While Chilled
Barb Sulfridge Barb Sulfridge

Filled While Chilled

Note to Readers: This content can be used in two ways. First, as a small group activity – Marked “Group.” With the text in italics.

However, it can also be read as an individual encouragement. Just skip the italicized “Group” sections.

May it bless you either way, and Happy New Year!

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Beacon Blesses          the Grieving
Barb Sulfridge Barb Sulfridge

Beacon Blesses the Grieving

According to his owner, Beacon appears to have a sixth sense and will gravitate to the grieving. He has been trained to sit with widows, small children, or anyone in need of some extra comfort during funeral services. Jamin also takes him on visits to nursing homes, hospitals, and the Ronald McDonald House throughout the Yakima Valley in Washington.

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“A Goat for Christmas?”
Barb Sulfridge Barb Sulfridge

“A Goat for Christmas?”

In honor of His birth, please consider the reason for the season. Sharing Christ’s love might be as simple as connecting with someone in need of Hope in your neighborhood.

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